In fact intellectual stimulation has limitless potential and can be accessed

regardless of physical limitations such as age or health.

It would be verbal fencing, humor, active listening and sharing secrets.

Most men are aroused by a woman who is intelligent and assertive.

Humor is also important. When we laugh, we release many endorphins

that are the same chemicals present when we have orgasms.

Endorphins create a sense of well-being. Endorphins also bond us to others,

so laugher can be a wonderful precursor to sex !We sometimes view sex as a source of recreation rather than a means of transformation. The goal may be to reach orgasm rather than to pleasure our lover or to connect with him or her more fully.This kind of lovemaking, say sex experts, has a distinct beginning and ending, with a climax somewhere in between and an average duration of 10 to 15 minutes. Given that women can take about 20 minutes just to reach full arousal, this type of sexual experience can be deeply unsatisfying.